1 - Take the time to figure out why the breakup occurred. Do you think you could/should change anything about yourself?
2 - Stay away from conversations that candidly tell him you want him back. There is a good chance he's missing you just the same. Play a little bit hard to get and let him bear in mind why he misses you and wants you back. However, this is a slippery slope, don't over do it or it may end up being just the opposite of what you intended and blow all chances of getting him back.
3 - Take a look at your appearance. Were you making an effort to dress up for your ex boyfriend, or are you too at ease around him for that now? If you used to dress more sexy or more aggressive, consider going back to that. If you dress to impress, he may find himself wanting you back again.
4 - Get a little chummy to his male friends to stir up a bit of jealousy. Every so often all that it takes is to remind him how much he wants you back by making him a little jealous. Again, take precaution with these methods because without a proper approach could honestly backfire on you.
5 - Think about how you converse with him, in contrast to how you used to speak to him. Talk to him the same way you want to be spoken to if you wanted to reignite a tender feeling between the two of you. Get back the "sweet terms of endearment" you guys used when you first fell in love with each other.
6 - Provoke him on a date once you have figured on a game plan, and remind him that you can still have a good time while you are together. Don't worry about complicating things by working out the issues now, just show him that you guys can still have fun and watch things reignite fittingly.
