Friday, March 11, 2011

10 Ways To Have Him Back

1 - Take the time to figure out why the breakup occurred. Do you think you could/should change anything about yourself? 

2 - Stay away from conversations that candidly tell him you want him back. There is a good chance he's missing you just the same. Play a little bit hard to get and let him bear in mind why he misses you and wants you back. However, this is a slippery slope, don't over do it or it may end up being just the opposite of what you intended and blow all chances of getting him back.

3 - Take a look at your appearance. Were you making an effort to dress up for your ex boyfriend, or are you too at ease around him for that now? If you used to dress more sexy or more aggressive, consider going back to that. If you dress to impress, he may find himself wanting you back again.

4 - Get a little chummy to his male friends to stir up a bit of jealousy. Every so often all that it takes is to remind him how much he wants you back by making him a little jealous. Again, take precaution with these methods because without a proper approach could honestly backfire on you.

5 - Think about how you converse with him, in contrast to how you used to speak to him. Talk to him the same way you want to be spoken to if you wanted to reignite a tender feeling between the two of you. Get back the "sweet terms of endearment" you guys used when you first fell in love with each other.

6 - Provoke him on a date once you have figured on a game plan, and remind him that you can still have a good time while you are together. Don't worry about complicating things by working out the issues now, just show him that you guys can still have fun and watch things reignite fittingly.

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7 - Force yourself to be laid back and even confident when you are around him. Do not stress yourself out worrying about talking things through with him. Most guys prefer girls that be aware of what is best for them.

8 - Don't put all your attention on him too much. By no means totally disregard him, but eliminate most of your focus away from him and let him think about it. Come up with good excuses that make him deem you're busy vs. making it about him. Let him sit and think about it, and he might be the one chasing you down! But Proceed with caution...

9 - Play like you know he cares about you, but that you're not all together affected by it. As soon as he figures out you are getting over him, you could see how much he really wants you back. Take something away from a guy like that - they want what they can't have. Remind him that you are essential in his life and see what happens. 

10 - Help him realize that even if he is not around you can still have fun without him. Don't be uncouth about your intentions to your ex boyfriend, but help him recognize that you're having a ton of fun hanging out with your friends, and he might recall why it was he fell in love with you in the first place.


1 comment:

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